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What do you think about double standards? They are often around us, even in us. We are so fond of criticizing other people for different things, but when it comes to us we can easily make the same choice as those who we critisized did. Where does it lead us? Are we hypocrites whose most defining quality is lying to ourselves?

This world is always about double standards.. Appearance, pull, wrong choices.

Even certain qualities in friends. We choose our friends according to the list of qualities. Sometimes it is the list of good qualities we want to see in our friends. Sometimes it is the list of qualities of negative qualities we don't want to see in them. So then why when the person is already our friend and suddenly appears to have one quality from that (-) list we easily forgive him/her for that?? Why can't we be objective when it comes to our friends? And if to speak about objectivity can we be objective at all? We all have values, experience and past. Everything can influence our objectivity.

So the question is how to still be yourself and not despise yourself if at every step of your life you can betray yourself and can even not notice it?