It is interesting how many thoughts in our life are really our thoughts. Not other people's thoughts that were passed through our system of perception but really ours? Metaphorically, is one person able to discover America on it's own or he/she needs other people's opinions to analyse them and make conclusions?

Why is behaviour of some people so illogical? When it doesn't have goals or sense at all. Just like a maze without exit. People make their life more complicated themselves but blame others. Pointlessly, isn't it?

From where do we gain all our shortcomings? In process of upbringing/socialising? Or we are born with them? Where is the line between genetics and upbringing? Some people think that less than 20% of our behaviour/feelings/character can be a result of genetics. Scientists see this figure as 50%. But what is this figure in reality? Or is it again subjective and indefinite like everething in this world? Does it depend on the power of  definite genetics or on the quality of upbringing? My first answer is "yes of course". But what about awkward age? I heard stories about people who had been perfectly normal before this period but drastically changed after it. So what is the chance of a kid that had been nurtured perfectly in all senses to become a person with a strong aberration? For example, cruel, wicked, self-contained, having no purpose in his/her life? Unfortunately this probability can be one of the first reasons for people's unwillingness to adopt children. And it does make sense. It is scary. You can do everything you can but it stll won't help. Such helplessness leads to despair and not each person is willing to take that risk. But sometimes when someone does it he/she has everything to live for.