hm.. why people want to be liked? Why do they care about other people's opinion so much? Why do they need to be loved? Does that mean that each person is not self-sufficient? If he needs to be loved, liked and cared about?

We all want to be beautiful, remarkable and perfect. And all of this lead to other people. We say that we buy beautiful clothes and jewelry for ourselves but in the end we want to be seen and evaluated. Why is it so? If not to consider appearance we want to be evaluated by our actions or qualities.. by anything. We want to be smth. Because it's a system? Is it just the way we are?

You can find hell of contradictions here. For example, you can consider yourself as a person with a very strong opinion that appearance means nothing - only smth inside you means smth. But even in this case you can be a little vain and discriminating, can't you? Is it hypocrisy or just the way things are in this world?

People people people people people people

It is always about people. We expect smth from them. We are hurt when we don't receive the expected things. We want them to care about us, to love us, to be noticed by them. We want to love them, to be close to them, to have some connection... And when we don't receive what we want there comes disillusionment, hurt and numbness.