Some people expect smth from us, don't they? Very often they expect from us smth they wanted for themselves and didn't get. They put pressure. It can go from love if there is some. But even in this case it can be selfish, not purely but..
But if there is no love? If it like some kind of loveless cruel machine? Like as person has some point of view on how people should act or live. Even if he doesn't follow his rules himself. Oh, he thinks he does. But he doesn't. So what does he do? He tells other people what they have to do not seeing at all what do those people want or need. He is 100% sure he is right and he despises any deviation from his wonderful plan for others. Nice. Really. Are there any humans on this planet?
This is one of million ways how to destroy a person. There is of course the opposite one which is not good too. When somebody doesn't expect anything from you. Maybe because he is too selfish to care or he just doesn't see anything in you, doesn't believe in you. Nice too, isn't it?
There must be smth good somewhere in the middle. And there must be love of course and humanity. When a person doesn't press, doesn't impose his view. He can just believe in you. He is able to support you even if he disapproves. He is able to let you choose your own way and make your own mistakes. Hmmm, yep this person is supposed to be an angel..
Are they real anyway?