This morning we had a text book argument, where he has provoked it first, and then blamed it on me. I was able to follow it and actually track down how he did it.
The conversation was like this:

A: you know, Olga thinks that my sister will have her baby today
H: another reason not to trust her!
A: why are you so sure she is wrong, today has not yet finished
H: she is rubbish anyway and she stole my money
A: she did not steal your money, your gave it to her.. She used to be good, but then she got corrupted, when she started charging money for her predictions
H: you are just like her - corrupted
A: what do you mean?
H: you also want to steal my money, take my house, etc
A: what are you talking about?
H: you said you want to kick me out and take the house
A: I never said that
H: raising his voice: do you think I have time for this early in the morning? Why do you always wake up and start fighting with me??

This time I was calm enough to respond that he in fact provoked a fight, cause he started blaming me out of the blue.. He had nothing to say..
But before it used to work, I could not understand why we were always fighting.. The most innocent comment would cause a fight and he would always blame me.. Now I finally understand. I have nothing to do with it!!!!

Yesterday I started feeling good again after meeting Shelly. I just wish we could have more time together, I think we are going through very similar things together. I think I can help her in some ways - I would really hope so. She's always been so kind and supportive, I think now she needs some help herself.

My sister is coming home, as baby is not in a hurry to come out.. I am not surprised, first babies are often late, and this is a good decision, staying home is better in every way. I am glad she understood it herself.

Work has been a little more exciting the last two days. And today there will be some kind of surprise announcement- I wonder what that is?