Today Harry had an interview in London in the afternoon, so I arranged for Yuri to go to the nursery in the afternoon.
As of course Harry would never agree to take Yuri to the nursery, I had to come home at lunch time, take Yuri to the nursery and then go back to work.
I did not have a problem with that, but I did not have much time.
So I arrived home, all was fine, Yuri was happy to see me, and food was almost ready.
Harry sat Yuri down on his chair and was about to warm up Yuri's food. Yuri often wants the food straight away, so he started crying while Harry was getting the plate in the microwave.

Poor Yuri had no idea that this would trigger an anger attack. Harry started loosing control and began to scream at Yuri: "you are a nasty boy, why are you behaving like that, stop crying, etc, etc". His whole face was quite scary and he raised his voice, so of course it only made Yuri cry more… Then Harry asked me to leave the kitchen and close the door. I knew that there was no point arguing.. He would have screamed at me too, and may be would have become more violent.. So I left… He tried everything to calm Yuri down, pleading, screaming more… but he would not stop. I was in the room next-door, in pain of hearing my little boy crying. Harry finally realised that he had to give him to me… So he did, and Yuri calmed down right away. When I was holding Yuri, he was getting happy again. He was sitting on my lap.
Harry told me that the food is ready in the oven. I asked him to give me the food, as I was holding Yuri, but he refused and left to go to the living room. He was very angry.
So I stood up and got my food, I sat down and we started eating together with Yuri.. He was smiling with me, and completely calmed down.. But then Harry walked in and started speaking to him with a very angry face, and raised voice again: "why are you so nasty! Don't behave like that, you are making daddy very angry!". He went on and on, and I could see that Yuri was scared.. He was even poking his nose in a very unpleasant way. He continued till he made Yuri cry…I tried calming him down. Yuri was leaning closer to me to hide from angry Harry. Harry kept abusing him till the moment we left the house.

His anger attack just had to go on, and when he is angry, he looses the ability to reason.. It's so scary.
I told Yuri that we will soon run away, and he will never be abused again.
Just one more month to tolerate!