I am really geared up for this last battle. Since I got the dictation machine I feel more protected, and every conversation that we have gets recorded. He kept telling me that our account will be negative at the end of the year, and that's all my fault and I would have to cover up for the difference. So finally I got my act together, I sat down, I got all the statements and analysed them one by one.
What I discovered was a real shock. He has been underpaying to the account very significantly, by about 5000-6000 this year. I am not sure what exactly did I feel, hurt, betrayed, angry? I though that I will complete the analysis and send him an e-mail, and take the matter to the court if he is unwilling to settle it. The plan did not quite work, as he saw me working on the spreadsheet last night. So we ended up have this conversation yesterday, and I recorded it all.
As expected he got very angry and he called me "crazy". However he agreed to pay in 1200, which will cover all our December bills, and we'll be able to close the account after it with a bit of a leftover. This is progress compared to me making up for the negative difference, but of course, he is still benefiting here. I will need to get all the Amex bills and check them, as I am sure I'll have evidence of his underpayments - and all his denial will be then useless.
I could not sleep, and when did start falling a sleep, I had nightmares, someone was strangling me and I felt terrified.
This is all so unhealthy. But it will be over soon.
We had really good time at Steph and Paul's, huge meal, very nice relaxing afternoon while Yuri was having his nap. I am getting my Christmas card ready this year, every friend will get one. I am happy and want to make the rest of world happy too.
Next year will be absolutely amazing. It's a final countdown!