Where did this idea come from that we are so desperate that we do not have anything to eat that we are so cheap? To be poor does not mean to be cheap. And why do actually men think that if they spend some money for you they have a right to want something from you? Was not it there own choice? Money - sex, this kind of relationships do not  alwayswork even with prostitutes. But for some reason it must work for me. Do not want to spend money? Do not invite me anywhre first go for a walk and have it clear what you want and what I want... I am not the only one who has the same problem..... Dinamo as the women in Russian call it is extremely popular now. Too many men look at the women as the candy in supermarket, paid bought enjoyed. It is OK to promise woman to marrya nd to give her up but it is not OK just to say goodby and go home after good dinner and good conversation....