i thought this is something worth writing about. not all men, of course, but those i know and am close to. Girlie friends have their value, and they are needed. somehow however, i stuck with guys since the age of 16, and never regretted it. girlie friends are great for a bit of a "all men are bastards" talk, shopping, and a bit of girlie comfort and understanding. however, i confide in men. i feel more comfortable telling them about my sad little life, feeling that i wont be judged or avoided. feeling accepted despite being a deviant and a misfit. they listen, and understand. bring chocolate, sit and listen. tell me off for being lazy, not eating and generally being a fuck up. and i can always have a hug when i need it. all you can ask from life is a good friend, and i was lucky enough to have several very close ones. so i just wanted to say, thank you for being there, and for being you. i love you