5 REASONS FOR WHICH YOU NEVER ENERGY ENOUGH.
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1) Ignoring brain prompts
If you constantly create a mess in your room, though you hate it with all your heart, then it means that somewhere in the subconscious you are shouting about yourself a very important unfulfilled business, more important than the one you are currently occupied with. Your laziness in the unwillingness to get away at this moment is not even laziness, but rather a signal about the energy potential that you can get by doing your work.This signal is sent in order to get as much inspiration as is necessary to cope with all your pressing questions, when you ignore it, you start to postpone the matter for later (especially if you do not believe in doing it at all) - the blind subconscious mind decides that you are dealing already as it were done (spiritual discomfort, however, will remain, he will also eat his own) and slowly begin to eat this energy as a hungry stomach eats himself. Energy is eaten just as much as it should have been, as a result - a broken limp person, you yourself.As a result, the pleasure from the neglected business is not obtained for a second, you are in the space of a "lonely guilty time" - you do not want to do anything, but not the slightest pleasure from razdolbaystva not work.
All energy is hidden in the action itself, and this is the most difficult to understand. Where do you get the energy to start acting? And just take and begin to roll on this hill, filled with and to those that you so need. If you ever looked to / p "People in Black", then you should remember the scene where the protagonists open the skull of one of the tiny aliens that controls the man in his head. So imagine yourself as such an alien being, relax and just mechanically watch how you perform the actions, allow yourself the luxury of making a mistake, you just learn, you train the muscle of willpower, so let it work in a mode convenient for it, but do not deny it it is her pleasure to become strong, as she can do it.
2) Contradictions
Unwillingness to do business can also be associated with the fear of moving forward in life. Our whole life is a fight with your own organism and it's much deeper than illness - it's a question of that if you live, serving only your body, which needs only its basic needs (heat, food, bed), the soul loses from it. The soul needs to be aligned with the needs of the body, this is an ideal bundle, this happiness is, but, of course, everything is not so simple, because there are also contradictions. Contradictions - this is the ugliest compromise in the battle between soul and mind - despite the fact that no one ever wins in this battle. Contradictions are those barriers that never allow a person to become oneself. All of them are created by the outside world, by huge gatherings of people who were once told by a person with the qualities of a leader. Probably, it is not necessary to explain that such a person could also be mistaken.
One of the contradictions, the common phrase "you need to become someone". Someone. Anyone. At the same time, is not our whole environment aimed at ensuring that we are not anyone other than who they need?How do they like it if you start to introduce new rules? But they will not like it, and they like to stop you very, very quickly. I do not doubt for a second, even being unfamiliar with you personally, that you have such things, in image, in character, in hobbies that you can not change because there is an environment that you will not be able to do it. That is, by "someone" is automatically understood a successful millionaire, with his business, stylishly dressed and, in general, handsome and no one else. And what about the other options?
If anything, remember from time to time that photographing yourself on camera was something shameful before the appearance of the word SELFI. Do not wait until all that you like will come into fashion, it works very strange and you can not wait for it.
3) Feeding energy vampires
A person can turn like a yule around other people for many reasons. One of the most important - he was simply disliked in his childhood, hence the ardent desire to please others. Such a person becomes ridiculous and ridiculous, he tries too hard to get approval from sometimes completely unfamiliar people, which looks very strange from the outside.
It is also very important not to fall for the label of perpetual petitioners, because there are a huge number of people whose interaction with others is built solely on the achievement of their own affairs. Such people will rather crap, than chat with you an extra minute about you, not about them. React to such people not as they want, and they fall off by themselves. The person you "figured out" immediately begins to behave very strangely, he as if forcibly displays such a reaction that he will immediately disclose all his cards if you only behave yourself nontrivially once. Most likely it will be some kind of insolent insult or a very mean act, but you would have done everything to save yourself if you had been cut off, are not you? If a person does this, it means that you have taken away an important part of his energy, without which he becomes an invalid. You "cut off his legs", but in fact you return your own.
These energy vampires catch the weak, they do not always do it consciously, it only happens because otherwise they will not have energy.
No need to be very angry with them, treat calmly to those who do not know how to live, but not in any case, do not let yourself feed on yourself, otherwise you will not die close.
4) Reluctance to let go
Anyway holding something in your head that you regret, you are doing what you eat yourself from inside. Energy is created and does not disappear anywhere, and it's necessary to put it somewhere, these are the rules.Therefore, one way or another, bad things begin to happen that will suppress this energy, so much so that you do not have such a "free time" for any such shit anymore. So, the energy is really so touchy to those who do not appreciate it.
And now try to imagine that the past does not exist. There is no past, no future. All our fears disappeared at the same time, because fears about the future are the result of an unfortunate past and nothing else. If you are not afraid of dogs, then most likely you have never been attacked by a gang of stray rabid animals, if your house has never burned, and you have not been saved in horror, then you probably do not have smoke detectors, and the fire extinguisher is not worth it. But these risks are always there. On the head may fall a brick, an icicle, a guest worker, whatever, you are not afraid of it only because the logical mind does not allow such an opportunity, people generally learn only from their own mistakes.
But if honestly, does fear help? No, it does not help, it eats the soul. Regrets about the past, about something that does not exist anymore, is a stupidity that you should immediately get rid of if you want to live normally. The fear of the future is just as stupid, because there is no future. This is just a strange word, and you are free to sacrifice generally accepted norms and "deceive" (or tell him the truth?) Your brain as you see fit. And if the realization that there is only now will help you, then what the fuck are you supposed to listen to those who call themselves supposedly logical? All that helps is not strange.
5) Non-existent boundaries of the possible
The last point directly continues the fourth. Once you understand that there is only now, it turns out that the past never was. And there is only you. A little alien inside the cranium of this strange human machine. Perhaps you are some higher mind whose goal is to get into this machine and make her life amazing no matter what? Well, that's such a strange entertainment with your alien friends, what can you do about it, only with your hands to separate.
You can change slowly, or you can do it instantly. I'll tell you a story: one day, on my way back from a long hike, my friend and I drove into the city on the way home and decided that we would communicate with everyone, and with each other, we would be exclusively in English. I immediately convinced myself that I am a New York American, and a huge hiking backpack helped to create an image. We asked for directions in English, ordered food and caught phrases whispering passers-by and restaurant customers that foreigners had come to see them. Along the way, I began to sing a song, I do not even remember what, but the views were wonderful. A passing elderly woman blurted herself "an American," and some funny girls took pictures with us. The transformation happened instantly and all this only because the past ceased to exist. For me there was only the present, in which nothing surprisingly was not predestined and nothing was decided. In this shell, I could do what I did not know, what I could do in my own. But what has changed? And the main question is: what will change for you and will it change? It's up to you.
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