I know who they are - children. Like lighting candle's gonna make everything okay. What difference does it make? Because in the end, when you lose somebody, every candle, every prayer is not gonna make up the fact that all you have left is a hole in your life, where that somebody that you cared about used to be. And a rock with a birthday carved into it. (c) Damon, The Vampire Diaries 4.02 Memorial