What really baffles me is why people wonder if Bobby is gay. The man is very explicitely depicted as straight, and yet there's speculation that perhaps, who knows, what if, blah-blah he's gay. How is that even a question? Just because the writers are gay, doesn't mean they can't write straight characters. Come on. Gay people have a way broader creative scope than that, they get married to delusional straight women and break their hearts like everyone else. You don't have to be straight to have seen enough straight action to accurately portray it.