♦ How to fall in love without losing herself
♦ How to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
♦ When to try harder... and when to walk away
♦ How to have a good time at a party she'd never choose to attend
♦ How to ask for what she wants in a way that makes it most likely she'll get it
♦ That she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents
♦ That her childhood may not have been perfect... but its over
♦ What she would and wouldn't do for love or more
♦ How to live alone... even if she doesn't like it
♦ Whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally
♦ Where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods when her soul needs soothing
♦ What she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month...and a year