The point is that if you know WHO you love, you don't really need to know WHY you love.

Sometimes it seems to you that you really know the person you love but then everything turns to be the greatest mistake...but anyway u're still in love even without understanding the reason.

whom do you tell? :)

anyway I can't be in love with someone having betrayed me - I can feel the pain but not love

sometimes the pain you feel seems to be a special love too...i think these feelings are not so different as we suppose.:)
I agree with this entirely:
Love

When love calls, accept its call, even if the road is rough and difficult.
And when your wings open up, surrender yourselves, even if the spade that lies there hidden ends up wounding one of you.
And when love says something, believe it, even if its voice destroys your dreams like the Northern wind devastates the gardens.
Because love glorifies and crucifies. It makes the branches grow and then trims them. It crushes men until they are flexible and docile. It burns them in divine fire so that they can convert into sacred bread to be served at God's banquet.
However, if you are afraid and want to find in love only peace and pleasure, better that you stay away from the door and seek some other world where you will be able to laugh but without any joy, and cry but without using up all your tears.
Love gives nothing and asks for nothing besides itself. Love neither possesses nor is possessed - because it suffices to itself.
And do not try to direct its course - because love thinks that you are worthy, it will lead you to where you have to go.
( "The Prophet," Khalil Gibran )