I love:
+conversations with friends until 2:30am
+when boys give you such big hugs that they pick you up, and it's a major plus if your back cracks in the process
+**memories** of happier times +SOAD +having first impressions proven wrong

I don't love:
=( close minded people
=( a sense of longing
=( unexpected/unwanted emotional floods
=( I don't really like missing people