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Pressure 18-07-2006 16:05 к комментариям - к полной версии - понравилось!


I tried to write some posts in livejournal to attract the native speakers' attention but I didn't succeed so I write them here:

What do you feel when somebody thrusts his or her (let's be politically correct) opinion to you, when he or she presses down on you? And you can do nothing 'cause this person doesn't want to listen to your point of view and just supposes his (her) opinion only to be right.
What do you feel? And how can you fight against such pressure?
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Roxana_Siren 18-07-2006-16:50 удалить
Hm... As for me, I don't feel myself good. But I always say that I have my own opinion and I don't want to know another one.
dolganov 18-07-2006-17:15 удалить
It depends. My grandmother is such person. But she is mine and she is old, and I see her once a week. So I just try not to pay attention. In other cases I can be angry or nervous. I'm lucky and I don't have a boss or a wife of such type. I try just not to communicate with such people. LI 5.09.15
Jelllyjam 18-07-2006-17:17 удалить
dolganov, of course if it's an old woman / man you behave one way. But what will you say if it's your close friend, if he /she has changed and it's very difficult to communicate with him / her?
Jelllyjam 18-07-2006-17:21 удалить
Roxana_Siren, and if it doesn't help? You know, even our friends (some of them) try to teach us how to live... Is it easier to sacrifice communication or calmness?
Roxana_Siren 18-07-2006-17:29 удалить
Jelllyjam, if it doesn't help, I'll go away... Maybe, my friend understands his mistake. If he doesn't understand, he isn't a good friend.
dolganov 18-07-2006-17:31 удалить
Is it your friend ? In fact, I don't know. Maybe it would do to explain your feelings to that person ( if she/he is your friend it may work). You may come to some common point of view. But if that person doesn't care about your feelings - strange friend. LI 5.09.15
Jelllyjam 18-07-2006-17:41 удалить
dolganov, well, not a very close friend... just friend, I don't know how to explain... Well, sometimes I see that some people around me are very strange, they have opinion that they suppose to be right and they say that I'm not able to think, that I need to think to have right opinion. But I have it, I have my own thoughts... and some people can't understand that...


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