“Many men feel the same way that they are less valuable without an attachment to a woman, this irrationality has its origins at the Attachment Hunger level. When you were an infant your mother was the most powerful being in the world and through your oneness with her you felt omnipotent. That feeling of shared omnipotence can be transferred to a new person in love relationship, and that often has an almost mystical effect enhancing your feeling of value and power”
Во взрослой жизни мы не с кем ни едины полностью, получается, нужно всячески лелеять свою независимость?)